{"id":663,"date":"2018-01-09T21:32:37","date_gmt":"2018-01-09T16:02:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.oyspa.com\/blog\/?p=663"},"modified":"2018-01-09T21:32:37","modified_gmt":"2018-01-09T16:02:37","slug":"strict-parenting-long-lasting-psychological-effects-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.oyspa.com\/blog\/playschool\/strict-parenting-long-lasting-psychological-effects-child\/","title":{"rendered":"Does strict parenting have long lasting psychological effects on a child?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.oyspa.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/DrShefali_Blog_PunishmentsConsequences.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-664\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.oyspa.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/DrShefali_Blog_PunishmentsConsequences-300x200.jpg?resize=300%2C200&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"ui_qtext_para\">Most of the people think that strict parenting and harsh discipline lead to more well-behaved child\/kids.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ui_qtext_para\">Well, they may be right!<\/p>\n<p class=\"ui_qtext_para\">Seen from an external behavioral point of view, kids of authoritarian families may seem polite, obedient and easy to manage. They are compliant and do as they are told!<\/p>\n<p class=\"ui_qtext_para\">Many parents view instant obedience as a good virtue.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ui_qtext_para\">Why?<\/p>\n<p class=\"ui_qtext_para\">Because it makes everyday life easier for them! Simple!<\/p>\n<p class=\"ui_qtext_para\">But strict discipline often has its price.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ui_qtext_para\">A high price!<\/p>\n<p class=\"ui_qtext_para\">If we for one moment look beyond external behavior and adjust our spotlight to what&#8217;s going on on the inside of these children, we will see that the authoritarian parenting style may have severe existential and psychological consequences.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ui_qtext_para\">Research has shown that children of authoritarian families are more prone to suffering from low self-esteem and low self-worth than children coming from authoritative or permissive parents.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ui_qtext_para\"><span class=\"qlink_container\"><a class=\"external_link tooltip_parent\" href=\"http:\/\/oyspa.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" data-qt-tooltip=\"oyspa.com\" data-tooltip=\"attached\">In this way, the short-term behavioral gain of obedience is heavily outweighed by the long-term psychological damage.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most of the people think that strict parenting and harsh discipline lead to more well-behaved child\/kids. 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